Pedestrian vs Ford Escape
On May 6, 2014 I was walking across a fairly busy intersection and a car turning left hit me. I was in the crosswalk, had the right of way, and was halfway through the intersection when I wrapped around the front of Ford Escape; I never saw him coming. He did not swerve or brake until he hit me. As I lay in the road he tried to pick me up and told me to “Get up. Walk, you ok,”’ in broken English. It was determined I had sustained a TBI, a broken scapula, a broken clavicle, my pelvis broken in three places, and my left calf permanently indented from the bumper. I spent 70 days in a hospital bed in my parents dining room, praying that my pelvis would heal and I wouldn’t need surgery. Although it seemed to heal and I can walk again, one of the breaks is not fully healed and I may need surgery to place plates and screws with a high likelihood of multiple serious complications from the surgery. Everytime I think I can move on, something else happens that reminds me of what happened. I have panic attacks if I try and cross any busy street and when I see someone walking across the street and a car creeps toward them impatiently I can’t help but become anxious. I no longer like going outside or being around people. just hearing the sound of cars driving can put me on edge. The worst part is that the guy never received a ticket and when I went to the police station to ask why I was told that it was my fault, I put my own life in jeopardy by deciding to walk to the bus stop, the guy was never going to get a ticket, I was ridiculous for wanting him to get one, and he never took my statement because I was screaming too much. Apparently five broken bones and going into shock meant nothing to this officer.
I am seeing a counselor and on medication to help with the anxiety. It is hard for me to tell people in my life about me receiving counseling or being on medication because of the social stigma attached to them. I am hoping to talk with people who understand the stigma of PTSD and everything associated with it.